mirroring & attunement

i wanted to share this quick and meaningful activity that my daughter and husband did the other morning. it was N’s idea to “be the art teacher” and she asked my husband to copy her picture step by step, mark by mark. and he did. (click image below to enlarge.)

N's on left, dad's on right

obviously, N went on the color the sky, etc. once daddy was finished being the art student.

i just love this impromptu exercise as an example of making art alongside your child and in your child’s “handwriting” as a way of validation. this sort of mirroring is a key component of a healthy relationship, and is one healing aspect of the art therapy work i do with clients. it communicates the ideas “i see you” and “what you say/make/do are important.” i love how my husband is so attuned to my daughter that this arose naturally between them.

try it out with your child and let me know how it goes.

08.21

2011
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  • Ashley

    beautiful … I think I will pass along to my husband to do with my daughter:)

  • http://mycreativefamily.blogspot.com Terri

    Wow… I love this! My daughter likes to do this with our pattern blocks. She makes a design with them and wants me to follow along. It can be quite fascinating at times.