countdown chain
this idea is not a new one… it’s age-old, in fact. but i feel like it is a great way to make something as nebulous as passing time quite concrete and visual for little ones. a paper chain!
we visited family on the east coast recently, and ever since we left, novi has been looooonging for my mom. chin quivering, holding back tears at the sound of her name. sobbing at the sight of her picture. saying that “seeing her on skype just isn’t the same!” telling me several times a day how she misses “gwee” so much that her heart hurts. (that’s what she calls my mom.) this is hard for a momma -who just moved across the country from gwee- to hear. i’m grateful she can name such a complex emotion, and i’ve told her how normal it is to miss people we love who are far away.
the good news is that my mom (and sister) are coming for a visit to california in about a month. the other day, my mom told novi that she bought her plane ticket. ever since novi heard that, she has been saying (a few times a day) “gwee is on a plane right now coming to see me!” or “gwee will be here when i wake up from my nap today, right?” so i’ve had to explain the passing of time to her a few times. we’ve looked at a calendar. then i figured we’d better make time more concrete.
besides, i had some old magazines and scrap papers in the recycling bin…
so i cut them into strips that were about an inch (or 1.5″ maybe) wide, all about 9″ tall. let’s face it – i can barely cut in a straight line, and that much cutting with those tiny toddler scissors just isn’t gonna happen with my 3-year-old.
then novi and i counted the days on the calendar until gwee’s visit – 31. she picked out and counted the strips, as i taped them together into loops. (she lamented at how long the chain was getting, understanding it’d be that much longer that she’d have to wait.)
then we hung the chain off of the bookshelf near our dining room table, and decided that we’d cut a strip off each night at dinner.
now this would be a great time for her to practice with her scissors! (one of these days we’ve gotta put the CUT in paintCUTpaste over here!)
so the countdown to gwee begins…






































