“From a children’s grief and loss perspective: Being upset, mad, sad or excited, scared… whatever… to make it all okay. To normalize for her that any of these feelings are to be expected. To share that you and Craig may feel some of these things to – to mourn together all of the losses that are taking place in this big change. I think sometimes because we want to avoid the unpleasant and painful, we may push the happier or more hopeful feelings and actually bypass the deep, dark pain of it. I’m imagining as a parent, that this could happen even more, as you want to save your child from anything terrible. These tough times are teachers, too. Make space for them in all the cool art stuff you guys do and all along the road to San Fran.”